PRESENTERS AND WORKSHOPS
- Breast and Chest Bondage
Amy Morgan is a lover of passions and holds many from kink, to gender fucking, to sexual freedom. She has been practicing and perfecting these passions for the last decade and currently resides in the Washington DC area. Her gateway drug into the scene, rope bondage, is one of her most strongest of passions as she brings with her extensive experience as a rope bottom, bondage model, and rope rigger. She continues to impart on others the beauty and magic of rope nationally at events such as Shibaricon and locally at Bondage Club Baltimore and DC Rope. She also enjoys exploring the scene through the lens of her camera as a photographer for Dark Odyssey.
Breast and Chest Bondage
Amy Morgan
This class is devoted to tying and binding the most versatile part of the human body: the chest and breasts. Indeed not only can chest bondage be useful, but it also has the most wide variations on how they can be tied whether your intention is suspension or not. Here we will discuss and show different ways to tie the upper chest whether we wish to accentuate or hide the breasts, include the arms or not, or thinking about a harness for suspension and perhaps even throw in some decoration as well. Bring a bottom or a friend and some rope (3x30' is best).
- The Furr and The Furious
Ann is a fun loving, equal opportunity sadist with a weird sense of humor who has been wandering the East Coast and attending kink events for longer than she likes to admit. Seamus, though relatively new to Dark Odyssey, has jumped in with both feet and found a welcoming place with Tribe and many opportunities for lots of kinky tomfoolery. Together they find each other endlessly entertaining - and maybe you will too - or not!
The Furr and The Furious
Ann and Seamus
The Furr and the Furious is an act of role playing fantasy centered around a particular time and place in Virginia where the rich and not so rich friends and family of a certain well-known figure in professional sports held a number of private events. The theme of these events was dogfighting, gambling and other less than ethical acts. We choose to reenact these events as part of our fantasy role play, because, well - we like this kinda stuff. If you are offended by human canines fighting, overt racism and sexism, raunchy cocktails etc - than you might not want to join us. If this kind of thing is fun for you, come and watch! Most of us have chosen roles before the event, but there are opportunities to play along! We will have limited cocktails for first comers, BYOB for the teeming masses.
- Breathwork for Transformation
- Choosing Pleasure: Tantra as a Spiritual Path
- Sex Majjic for One or Two
- Recognition and Remembrance: A Puja
Arabella Champaq is a Sexological Bodyworker, a Sacred Intimate, and a Tantrika. Breath, sound, touch, and energy are her tools.
Her exploration of kink began in second grade when the big boys would tie her up and leave her under the bushes during recess. Now, Arabella unites Kali energy with Shakti to facilitate the unfolding of consciousness.
Arabella has studied for 35 years with various teachers. She was a student of Sufi Master of the Chishti Order, Pir Vilayat Inayat Khan, and has also studied extensively with Alan Lowen. She is in tantra teacher training with Rudy Ballentine. She has led classes, circles, meditations, and retreats since 1982.
Breathwork for Transformation
arabella champaq
In Pairs (one breathing, one holding space/ witnessing), we will experience the deep transformative power of breath. There will be opportunity for each participant to experience both roles, and some time to process upon completion. Participants should bring drinking water, a blanket and a pillow.
Choosing Pleasure: Tantra as a Spiritual Path
arabella champaq
One of the basic principles of tantra is “The Healing Power of Pleasure.” What is pleasure anyway? What is spiritual? Are these two words a dichotomy? Is it ‘wrong to feel this good?’ Could Pleasure become a guiding principle in our personal spiritual journey? This class is an exploration of our curiosity about pleasure as a spiritual discipline. We will share in practices and exercises as a part of our exploration. No experience is necessary.
Sex Majjic for One or Two
arabella champaq
Our orgasmic energy can help us achieve our intentions. In this ritual of pleasure, we will ride the wave of our own orgasm to help us attain a specific, personal and short-term goal. We will begin with a short discussion about establishing intentions. Participants will have time to define their own intention. As the Sex Majjic Ritual begins, we will work with breath and other exercises to increase our erotic energies, building to freeform masturbation or sexual union with our partner. The ritual will conclude as we free-float in post-orgasmic bliss. Participants should bring drinking water, a pillow, and their erotic intention.
Recognition and Remembrance: A Puja
arabella champaq
As our intention moves into action, we participate in an evocation of the sacred in each of us. We invite ourselves to see and to be seen, to recognize and remember, to be Present and to practice Presence. As we move through the heartwheel, and as the heartwheel moves through us, we create and strengthen community, invoke shared vision, and embody our innate capacity for transformation.
- And Now We Are Six! The Joys of Age Play
- Oral Fixation
- Queer & Genderqueer Mixer
- Seducing Your Play Partner
Arli is a polyamorous, femme leatherdyke who has been kinky since getting her first spanking from the neighbour girl at age 5.
In her home town of Vancouver, British Columbia Arli has been organizing and hosting kinky events for more than 20 years. The last 6 years her attention has been on producing Leather Dyke and Leather Queer events with her colleagues at Canadian Mayhem. She is usually seen traveling up and down the west coast with at least one other member of the Vancouver Away Team, a rogue group of queers intent upon creating Joyful Mayhem wherever they go.
Dark Odyssey, Summer Camp is the first time Arli has presented on the East coast and she is very excited. Kink in the great outdoors, what could be sweeter.
And Now We Are Six! The Joys of Age Play
Arli
Arli will delve into the often taboo subject of age play. However you identify age play can be a fun and edgy place to explore. Arli is known to be a precocious four year old who really is a good girl, except when she isn’t, then she is a sadistic four year old. Let’s discuss some of the rules about age play and then throw them out and make our own. There may be a surprise or two and there will be toys and colouring books for those unable to sit still."
Oral Fixation
Arli
I love to suck cock, especially dyke cock. No I mean it I really really really love to suck dyke cock!
I’ll talk about what I do and how I do it. What works and what doesn’t. Are you afraid? Let’s find ways to
get over that. Let’s find ways to let them know just how much we love to suck their cocks. Let’s get off
on sucking their cocks. Let’s get them off! Anyone who loves to suck cock is welcome the tips and tricks are applicable to everyone, please join me! I’ll talk about what I do and how I do it. What works and what doesn’t. Are you afraid? Let’s find ways to get over that. Let’s find ways to let them know just how much we love to suck their cocks. Let’s get off on sucking their cocks. Let’s get them off! Anyone who loves to suck cock of any sort is welcome- the tips and tricks are applicable to everyone, please join me!
Queer & Genderqueer Mixer
Arli
Calling all dykes, fags, queers, FtMs, MtFs, transfolk, crossdressers, and genderqueer peeps! Wouldn’t it be nice if we could all find each other before the weekend is over? Join us after dinner at this mixer for dessert (including locally-made pies), schmoozing, and cruising. People who identify as queer or gender variant (or both) as well as partners and supporters are welcome.
Seducing Your Play Partner
Arli
I know how hard tops work to create a scene, a mood, an experience. They dress to impress, they work hard to learn new skills. They listen closely to the things that scare me and excite me. They seduce me; I’d like to return the favour. I want to seduce them. I want them to know how hot I am for them, how appreciative I am of their skill. It doesn’t matter if it is an ongoing relationship or a one night stand, seduce them. Why should they always be the ones to plan the date? Offer up something that you know they want from you. Surprise them. Seduce them. Trust me it will be worth it.
- Alternative Media Bondage
- Bondage Therapy: Spinning and Unraveling Sexual and Emotional Healing
- The Rope Dance
- Rope Laced Predicament Scenarios
Artemis Hunter is an Atlanta based Adult Sexuality Educator seeking certification from the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapist (AASECT), a BDSM lifestyle practitioner/supporter, and an Erotic Rope Artist & Instructor.
There’s a point when a woman is comfortable in her own skin, and with her life, and with the lessons learned and adventures still ahead to entice and allure. There's also a point when she's also called to inspire, foster, and share those lessons with the next generation of players.
Up from the South rises a southern woman, one who is as comfortable rolling around in rope as she is tossing its tendrils in the world of BDSM inspired imaginative adult play. Her energies pool and rush between soft sensuality and animalistic flashes of raw passion. Once inspired by those offering themselves up as subtle canvasses, she jointly creates healing human works of art.
Alternative Media Bondage
Artemis Hunter
“It’s you. It’s me. And my rope kit is nowhere to be found. No worries. What I always have with me are my bondage skills and those can be applied to numerous items at hand. Look. There’s a towel. Look. There’s some fishing line. Look at what you are wearing… If I promise to buy you a new one, may I disassemble it from your body and reapply it newly, with you wrapped in its core? Oh, how Bondage brings us together.” Thinking outside the bondage box and being creative yield fabulous results. Join Artemis Hunter as she guide the class and shares tips for applying bondage principles to rope alternative items. This hands-on class invites your participation. Some rope alternatives provided. Helpful to bring: Safety shears, your non-rope/traditional bondage items and tips to share.
Bondage Therapy: Spinning and Unraveling Sexual and Emotional Healing
Artemis Hunter
Time and time again it happens. Through bondage, a myriad of emotional and sexual releases are ushered forth. Walls are knocked down. Barriers drop. Triggers awaken. Fears are faced. Inhibitions release. Explorations are allowed to unfold. Relationships build. Confidences increase. Trusts solidify.
For many, knowingly or not, bondage provides a kind of experiential therapy that challenges, heals, and nurses the soul. Join Sexuality Educator, Artemis Hunter, as she facilitates an open discussion about Bondage and the healing growth impact it has on lives. “More healing can sometimes be achieved through experiential bondage, than in a year’s worth of talk-based therapy.” Discuss.
The Rope Dance
Artemis Hunter
The beautiful art of erotic restraint and rope bondage has often been compared to a dance… join Atlanta’s own Artemis Hunter as we take the metaphor into the world of actual dance. Chest harnesses woven onto our partner’s bodies will become anchor points for spins and dips, crotch ropes enabling the dirtiest dancing you ever dreamed. Whether you are a novice rigger or experienced rope artist, have never been bound or have been flying in the air for years- bring your rope, your desire to dance, and enjoy the music as the ropes spin.**
Rope Laced Predicament Scenarios
Artemis Hunter
"There just isn’t anything like the delight of a good self-struggle. Artemis Hunter guides you through some playful and sadistic Predicament Bondage Scenarios sure to add erotic fun to your adult play. This interactive class, with lots of audience participation, will pull you in and put you right in the middle of the fun action. Fun situations to explore include: Scrotum Hobbling for fun and games; Anchoring in an interactive anal hook; Enhancing muscle fatigue; Time control as an element of restraint; Encouraging Knotty Competitions between two Naughty Bottoms.
- Aftercare for Spiritual and Cathartic Scenes
- Harvest of Joy (with Margo Eve)
Asrik is a presenter, kinkster, body mod enthusiast, and explorer of the otherworldly who has been part of the pagan and BDSM scenes for the past decade. He is actively engaged in teaching classes on kink, facilitating amazing scenes, profound rituals, and chronicling his experiences in the BDSM community. Asrik has worked and facilitated rituals with leading figures in the pagan and spirit work communities including Raven Kaldera, Wintersong Tashlin, Galina Krasskova, and Anya Kless. He is a member of Clan Tashlin and has played an active role in shaping the Clan’s direction since soon after it’s founding. Over the past year Asrik has been a frequent sight at Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture and on Rain City TNG excursions. His newest passion is creating a space (cartographersoftransgression.wordpress.com) to chronicle the transformative experiences found by those who use tools from the kink and body mod communities to achieve exaltation.
Aftercare for Spiritual and Cathartic Scenes
Asrik
When people talk about spiritual BDSM or cathartic scenes it is often in the context of how to “get there”, but what happens when you come back? In this class we'll talk about handling aftercare for experiences that may have been the most intense of your life. How to do self care (as a bottom AND as a top), how to set up support networks, how to handle aftercare if a "normal" scene suddenly turns into something deeper, what to do with lessons you may have learned in your scene, what happens if someone close to you has an experience like this and turns to you for help. Maybe you’re mildly interested in these kinds of play, maybe you can recite Radical Ecstasy backwards while patting your head and rubbing your tummy, regardless, come join us for a discussion of a critical but rarely discussed aspect of these kinds of play.
Harvest of Joy (with Margo Eve)
Asrik
We have released our shame at DO:Fusion and now is the time to harvest our Joys. It has been a hard year for many of us. It is time to count the blessings we have, and generate more so that they may carry us through what comes next. Come and share what is it inside of ourselves that makes us strong, capable beings worthy of love, prosperity, and life. Enjoy the fruits of the harvest on a tantalizing tray and delight in each other’s company as friends, family, and the tribe of Dark Odyssey as we empower each other for the coming winter ahead.
Participants are encouraged to bring harvest fruit, vegetables, baked goods, fruit juice, cider, beer and mead. Drummers welcome.
- Better Built Bottoming
Ava Amnesia is a lot of different things, but at the root of everything, she hates writing bios. They're scarier than most of the sadists she plays with, and don’t scream half as attractively as some of the masochists she plays with, but they can be useful when trying to convince people to come listen to her talk. She doesn't consider herself to be a traditional educator, more of a wandering repository for information and entertainment, with a personal motto of: "If you're not laughing, you probably aren’t learning." In between being a professional submissive at the Studio in Chicago and trying to spend as much time with her friends and chosen family as possible, she loves to travel, read, and sing (badly, in the shower).
Better Built Bottoming
Ava Amnesia
"How the hell does she do that?" "I could never take that much pain." "I'm not flexible enough to do rope bondage." Bottoming ain’t easy. From pain processing to headspace, each individual comes to a scene with their own set of challenges and needs, which can change at the drop of a hat. We'll discuss, and practice, ways to alter or further develop pain tolerance, communicate more effectively, and even how to look sexy while doing it. Ava will draw upon her wealth of experience as a Super Evil Switch (tm) to help both tops and bottoms navigate those tricky spots. Bringing along that evil toy you hate, or a piece of rope to show that position your partner just can’t manage, is suggested.
- Cigars Boots & Chocolate (co-hosting with Jim Deuder)
- A Re-Introduction To The Only-Mostly-Dead Art Of Chivalry (Now! With 200% More Feminism!)
- Theatre Skills for Better Sex
Bear is delighted as ever to make some use of his expensive private education for the purposes of helping people get up to dirty shenanigans with greater flair and confidence. A writer, lecturer, and wordsmith, he spends the majority of his non-teaching time trying to make more room in the language for all of us.
Cigars Boots & Chocolate (co-hosting with Jim Deuder)
Bear
An evening under the stars, with good conversation, delicious chocolate, and a good cigar...what could be more perfect? Perhaps adding some skilled leather-care artists and the sensual touch of polish and bare hands. We’re creating a special retreat during Summer Camp: an opportunity to step away from the hustle and bustle, to sit back and relax, to take the focus off of doing something and just allow yourself to be. We will have a few servers to bring you tasty chocolates and prepare your cigars for your smoking pleasure. Feel free to bring cigars with you, though if you don’t have any with you there will be some available for purchase at the gathering.**
A Re-Introduction To The Only-Mostly-Dead Art Of Chivalry (Now! With 200% More Feminism!)
Bear
Everyone's heard the stories: men who get kneed in the balls for holding open a door, youngsters who sprawl on bus seats while elders stand, the myth of the handkerchief-carrying gentleman, and all the rest. What, exactly, do girls women people want in the world of chivalry? How can a modern gentleperson be courteous without being sexist or a suckup? And while we're at it - who goes through the door first, again? Talk a little about the principles, and then learn a lot about the mechanics of walking in public (v. walking in private, natch), and a whole lot more.
Theatre Skills for Better Sex
Bear
People with improvisational theater training know three things you don't about how to make a scene out of nothing, and/or keep one going if it gets away from you. Excellent for eager newbies and jaded ancients, the straightest of couples and the queerest alike will learn how to seamlessly become new characters, take old standbys in new directions, and incorporate new ideas on the fly without missing a beat.
- Cutting 101
- Turning Lemons into Lemonade: A Piercing Rite
For nearly two decades, Capt. Gordon has been deeply involved with the Body Modification and Tattooing industry. After much reflection it was his spirituality that brought that brought him to that place to learn about tribal cultures of all kinds. Over the years, with his experience, he has been able to bring a wide range of skills and techniques to many different communities. As Vice President and now Ambassador of SMS he has sought to improve the communities he works within through safety awareness, art, and sacred sexuality. Some of his interests include ritual and ceremonial facilitation, ritual tattooing, piercing, flesh hook suspension facilitation (both safety and technique), cutting and branding, body transformation weekends, healing arts, ritual art and theater, body play, BDSM, D/s and M/s relationships, fire performance, and ordeal facilitation. He also gives various educational workshops on safe blood play, piercing art, extreme vs.edge play ,kinky wrestling, and more.
Cutting 101
Capt. Gordon
Cutting 101 is an artistic and scientific/safety based exploration of cutting of flesh. We will explore how the human body responds to cutting, the healing process, and some of the spiritual aspects of cutting as well. This demonstration of techniques will also open up possibilities around the sensual and energetic connections we form, and look into permanency as well as less permanent modifications. As there will be cutting and blood at this class, those who are squeamish can feel free to not attend or excuse themselves if they become uncomfortable.
Turning Lemons into Lemonade: A Piercing Rite
Capt. Gordon
This ritual and piercing experience will be an exploration of how we can take love and life's lemons and make them into the sweet sustenance that summertime lemonade offers us. This will involve the use of a small gauge piercings that have been seen in tribal ball dance rituals, to bring awareness to our personal lemons, so that you may have the opportunity crush and squash them into something more fruitful. Come dance around the fire with focused intention, the purity of water, and dreams of sweetness, together we can make life's lemons into life's lemonade. There is space for many dancers, and witnesses are welcome. Non-piercing options available for ritual participants.
- Bum's the Word: Anal 101
- Getting Your Group-On: When sex with more is more fun
- Preparing the Temple: Yoga for Sexual Well Being
- Safer Sex Orgy
A queer star working in the adult entertainment industry for the last 8 years, Dylan has expanded on her experience as a performer by teaching sex education classes, speaking at events about sexual health and empowerment and getting her Masters in Social Work focusing in social health and welfare for the sex work community. Dylan's recent community welfare interests explore how yoga and bodywork can aid in sexual well-being.
Bum's the Word: Anal 101
Dylan Ryan
Anal sex. Does it seem like these days everyone is doing it? Well you can too! With a few basics, anal can be fun, safe and even totally mind-blowing. Come learn how to do it in a way that works with your body and will help you get started doing anal with others as well. While this class is designed for beginners, there will be tips and tricks so if you have been playing with butts for awhile, consider yourself welcome too!
Getting Your Group-On: When sex with more is more fun
Dylan Ryan
Feeling curious about the world of sex in a group? Are you part of a partnership that is looking to branch out? Or a single wanting to mingle with multiples? Looking for language to use in negotiating with groups or ways to get past your nerves? Come and participate in group sex negotiations in a group setting with like-minded folks who are looking to learn as well. We will discuss everything from safer sex in group situations to possible awkward moments and how to deal with and talk about them both before and during. A must for anyone who has always wondered and now wants to move ahead. Singles, couples and already-formed groups welcome. Please be prepared for in-depth discussion and to be open to communicate.
Preparing the Temple: Yoga for Sexual Well Being
Dylan Ryan
Having great sex can demand a lot of you; flexibility, centeredness, awareness, good breathing technique... What better way to get ready for some of your best sex than with yoga? Come in the morning to ready your mind, body and soul for the sexy day ahead. Your body is a temple, let yoga be how you prepare it.
Safer Sex Orgy
Dylan Ryan
Always wanted to attend an orgy, but were afraid you wouldn’t be able to negotiate your safer sex needs? Rest easy, and come out to join this piggy pile without all the stress. Gloves will be used for all genital contact, condoms will be worn on all sex toys and phalluses, and dental dams will be used for all oral contact to genitals… and with that out of the way, let’s get it on! Lube Boys and Girls will be on-hand, literally, to help pump lube, help you change gloves between partners, and in general assist how they can. Bring your partner, bring a few more, or show up with an open heart and a smile for the safer sex orgy! Live demos will be available to show folks how to use all these delightful tools- because safer sex is sexy sex.
- Kissing: The Eloquent Silence (with Margo Eve)
- The Sensorium (with Margo Eve)
Elkor is a Sensual Top with a Dominant streak that comes out at random times. Possessed of a quirky sense of humor, he likes showing people they can enjoy the things he wants to do to them.
Kinky his whole life, Elkor has been in the scene since 1999. As well as participating in a number of groups, he began presenting to BDSM groups in 2005 and has been hooked since. With his partner & wife, Margo Eve, he enjoys presenting on a variety of subjects, from the physical to mental to interpersonal, and how to blend them.
Kissing: The Eloquent Silence (with Margo Eve)
Elkor
It's taken for granted that everyone knows how to kiss. But many people feel they know how to kiss well. Kissing can be as tender as any murmured words or as demanding as any order. This class will illustrate techniques so that you may develop your own style of kissing. We will cover everything from oral hygiene to how to best go in for “the approach,” to where to place your hands to create just the right moment, and otherwise show how to develop your skills to put you in a class apart when it comes to speaking without words.
The Sensorium (with Margo Eve)
Elkor
Come one, come all to the sensational sensory event of the Summer Camp season! Elkor and Margo Eve will be your host and guide through this night of sensual wonders, where you help create the experience that others will share! Soothe or be soothed as skillful hands relax with tender healing massage. Get comfort and care in cuddle piles. Tickle and tease with toys. Practice your kissing techniques with willing experts. Take the sensual toy challenge, where Elkor will turn the most sadistic implement you can find into one made for tantalizing teasing and pleasure!
- Erotic Punching: From Massage To Catharsis – Sometimes It's Gotta Get Ugly To Get To The Beauty
After over twenty international years of living and mentoring in BDSM relationships; learning and teaching of Eastern philosophies and arts; and researching and presenting as a Biomedical professional, this year Gryphon finally succumbed to loving coercion to share his experience with the Community in a more formal way. He wants to “pay forward” to those who are with him on this path we share. His passions are pressing physical, emotional, and intellectual limits through enticing himself and others to explore those dark corners that hide carnal cravings that they are afraid or ashamed of; edge/fear play that involves direct contact with his enormous hands: punching, drowning play, hard takedowns, pressure points/joint locks; mind fuck and predicament play. He will also slide you seamlessly from bowel-voiding terror to side-splitting laughter and back again in a blink. He currently shares his life with his slut bitch (Gryphon's puppy) and their wonderful Central Fla lifestyle community.
Erotic Punching: From Massage To Catharsis – Sometimes It's Gotta Get Ugly To Get To The Beauty
Gryphon
Ever catch yourself being more aroused than expected anticipating the “fist-pounding” part of your next massage? How about being able to perpetrate a serious “beat down” on someone near and dear to you while by-passing that annoying trip to the hospital? Yes – no matter how vast or evil your collection of instruments of terror is, there is something uniquely powerful about the sensation of fist to flesh and bone, regardless of which end of it you are on. We'll introduce this most personal – and potentially dangerous – form of sharing starting with safety concerns and basic anatomy. We'll discuss some different types of punching, then move through some of different ways that it can be used to achieve a range of delirious outcomes. We plan to have some fun along the way, too! Bring your favorite punchee/puncher – participation encouraged.
- Advanced Anal
- Magic Fingers
- Trans-Queering your Sex
- Ultimate Orgasm (for those who have "innies")
Ignacio Rivera aka Papí Coxxx who prefers the gender-neutral pronoun “they” is a Black-Boricua, gender-fluid, Trans-Former, kinky, sex positive sex educator, sex worker, performance artist and filmmaker. They are the creator of Poly Patao Productions.
Poly Patao Productions is dedicated to producing sex-positive workshops, performance pieces, play parties, panel discussions, teach-ins, social/political groups and educational opportunities that are specially geared toward queer women, transgender, multi-gender, genderqueer, gender non-conforming and gender variant folx of color. Find out more at http://polypataoproductions.com/ or on Twitter as Ignacio_Rivera.
Advanced Anal
Ignacio Rivera aka Papi Coxxx
For those who like to push the boundaries of butt loving, here's an advanced workshop on everything from anal douching and enemas to safe and sexy anal fisting. We'll cover smart ways to engage in extreme ass play, double penetration for all genders, and help dispel the myths and shame around this enjoyable orifice.
Magic Fingers
Ignacio Rivera aka Papi Coxxx
Let’s talk about fingering, fisting, hand-jobs and more! This workshop will cover how we can better use our hands to stimulate, fornicate and help ejaculate our desires.
Trans-Queering your Sex
Ignacio Rivera aka Papi Coxxx
Interested in a Trans person, gender queer person or gender non-conforming person? Wanna have fun and be respectful. Wanna experience ""non-traditional"" sex and desire that is not based on stereotypes? Well this is the workshop for you. Open to all sexual orientations and genders.
Ultimate Orgasm (for those who have "innies")
Ignacio Rivera aka Papi Coxxx
Maybe you’ve never had one, maybe you have but you’re still not sure what all the fuss is about, or maybe you’re an orgasm overachiever with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. Whatever your reason for taking this class, you’ll learn all about anatomy, techniques for coming with a partner or solo, how masturbation can help you expand your orgasm, g-spot orgasms, anal orgasms and more.
- Bootblacking: Skills and Sass
- Cigars Boots & Chocolate (co-hosting with Bear)
- Hands on Caning 101
As the current International Mr Bootblack, Jim Deuder brings with him over a decade of experience in the bootblack, Kink and and Leather communities. Well known for his sexually expressive style of bootblacking, and rhythmic impact play, Jim has traveled across the globe sharing his knowledge and experience on a wide range of topics from relationships to SM to erotic leather care. A fluid soul, Jim appreciates the exchange of energy between people more than any one simple physical act. He lives an open and poly lifestyle, and enjoys connecting with all variations of gender and orientation. Jim is the contest coordinator for the International Ms Bootblack competition in San Francisco, and is the producer and founding member of the NYC Bootblack Roundtable.
Bootblacking: Skills and Sass
Jim Deuder
Breaking into bootblacking can sometimes be intimidating. All those products and all those tools, there is so much to remember, right? Nonsense! The mystery of bootblacking basics will be uncovered, giving you a foundation for most leathercare challenges. But there is more to bootblacking than just products. This presentation will delve further in to the sass of bootblacking, the passion, the sex, the challenging of power and gender role expectations. I can guarantee you won't see this stuff at the airport. There will be a demo, and the opportunity to practice what we learn. An unsuspecting audience member may even be chosen it the boots are hot enough, so come out with your sexiest pair.
Cigars Boots & Chocolate (co-hosting with Bear)
Jim Deuder
An evening under the stars, with good conversation, delicious chocolate, and a good cigar...what could be more perfect? Perhaps adding some skilled leather-care artists and the sensual touch of polish and bare hands. We’re creating a special retreat during Summer Camp: an opportunity to step away from the hustle and bustle, to sit back and relax, to take the focus off of doing something and just allow yourself to be. We will have a few servers to bring you tasty chocolates and prepare your cigars for your smoking pleasure. Feel free to bring cigars with you, though if you don’t have any with you there will be some available for purchase at the gathering.
Hands on Caning 101
Jim Deuder
Caning is one of my absolute favorite activities, and believe it or not it is one of the simplest forms of SM play. This hands on workshop will discuss the basics including various types of canes, safety, and anatomy. We’ll cover a number of non-traditional and traditional strokes, as well as incorporating rhythm and music into your caning. The best part of the class, though, is that we will be caning, right now! So bring a partner, friend, or willingness to be paired up with a stranger. Don’t have a cane, no problem! We will have basic unfinished rattan canes available for a nominal $5 fee so you can get started. Surprisingly these are one of my favorite types to use. Participation is highly encouraged, however no one is ever obligated to do anything they are uncomfortable with.
- Breaking Skin: Decorating the Body
- Hot Wax to the Max
- Power Flogging
- Xplore & Taste
Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80's when “online” meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains ""to have fun."" Lolita has taught for organizations and events across the country. Well-known for a fun and entertaining style, she packs a lot of information into a short class. Lolita is an Emeritus Board Member of of both TES and LLC. She is a former Chair of LSM, an honorary member of GMSMA and an Associate Member of NYboL. She is active with NCSF and Leather Pride Night. Two books : Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell. Recently, she was featured in the New York Times One in 8 Million series: http://is.gd/RIbuhN Her website can be found at http://leatheryenta.com/
Breaking Skin: Decorating the Body
Lolita Wolf
There are so many pretty things we can do! Demo will include making designs with needles and staples, making string patterns, attaching beads and other pretty adornments. This type of handiwork will take breaking skin to a whole new level.
Hot Wax to the Max
Lolita Wolf
It starts with just a drip and then explodes into an avalanche of wax. We are going to pour it on! Our bottom will become a human candelabra. After cleanup, the afterglow will rival the actual scene.
Power Flogging
Lolita Wolf
Learn how to get the most out of your stroke and how to have the stamina to outlast those piggy bottoms. Your body angle and footwork are also important for accuracy and achieving a variety of sensations. In addition, we'll cover different types of floggers and cats, warm up, reading the bottom, communication, and safety.
Xplore & Taste
Lolita Wolf
Get camp started with a bang! Come meet your fellow campers, greet some of our amazing presenters, connect with old friends, and make some new ones at this Friday night mixer. If you’re feeling adventurous, try a “tasting” of any or all of several different types of kinky, sexy fun—like massage, hot wax, dirty talk, spanking, flogging, fire play, rope bondage, and more—at one of the many exploration stations. Or you’re welcome to hang back and watch the action as it unfolds.
- Ponies, Puppies and Kitties... oh my!
- Petting Zoo
Luna is very active in the Leather/BDSM communities, on staff at The Playhouse in Baltimore and The Crucible in DC. She has been volunteering at events and organizations since starting in her hometown of Chicago in 2002. Her work within the community has allowed her to learn and grow as a person, help people, teach, and travel. After relocating to the East Coast in 2007, Luna and her pony partner, were honored to be the only ones to win the leather title of International Pony & Trainer 2008. This led to Luna becoming a nationally known presenter and advocate for pony play. In addition to animal play of all types, Luna enjoys presenting on a variety of topics, mentoring, meeting new people, and being able to help others whenever possible.
Ponies, Puppies and Kitties... oh my!
Luna Bear
Have you ever heard the call of the wild animal within, or domesticated for that matter?! Do you dream of running the plains, or lying about being petted, pampered and spoiled? Animal role play can be fun, creative, challenging, and rewarding on many levels. Let's discuss different types of role play, how you can achieve animal head space, accessories to get in the mood, and let's face it it's all about the accessories! This class is for all experience levels and animals from mild to wild, or for those who love animals as I do. It is an interactive class so please come with any items, stories, or experiences you might want to share and I will try to give your insight and tips to get started.
Petting Zoo
Luna Bear
Are you a fierce ferocious animal, a cuddly affectionate pet, or perhaps just an admirer of our animal friends? This is a great way to let your inner-animal come out to play. You can participate as a domesticated or exotic species, along with your owner/trainer. All of earth’s animals are welcome—whether shy or outgoing, clean or filthy, furry or smooth, well-trained or wild. Or, you can visit the petting zoo and interact with the animals. As a visitor, you should approach each animal slowly with your hand reached out so it can sniff you before you pet it or feed it a treat to ensure fun, friendly, and safe encounters with our animal friends. Scratch an ear, rub a belly, stroke a chin, giggle when she wiggles her sexy tail...This is the petting zoo your family never took you to! Fun for all ages!
- MMM. Morning Movement & Meditation
As a facilitator of mystical pragmatism, Luna Bella is deeply passionate about the world. Pulling from many modalities of stillness and movement meditation, her dynamic facilitation style helps open up body movement and awareness to a wider audience.
MMM. Morning Movement & Meditation
Luna Bella
The morning meditation is a clothing optional time to wake up the body and quiet the mind... a sweet gift to self before all the days' sexy activities begin. The exact things we do will emerge from our combined energies. You can expect some light movement -chigong, stretching, stripper moves, etc.- and some form of stillness meditation. Forget the navel gazing, how about some geni gazing?!
- Grounding Circle
- Kissing: The Eloquent Silence (with Elkor)
- The Sensorium (with Elkor)
Margo Eve (That's First Name: Margo. Last Name: Eve.) has been in the scene longer than she's willing to admit. She has been studying up up on sexuality even longer than that. (Someone told her there would be a quiz once.) She holds a few degrees in Communication but prefers to put them down to do other things. She's been been studying the role of communication in gender and sexuality for almost as long as she's been with her husband/partner, Elkor. When her head isn't in her shiny Macbook, she is either dancing (with or without fire), experimenting FOR SCIENCE!, contemplating the mysteries of desire, or thinking up something devious to do to others. She's also been known to give out hugs on a regular basis and believes, when in doubt, go for the funny. You can see some of her writing in Lee Harrington’s “Spirit of Desire” anthology.
Grounding Circle
Margo Eve
Leaving Camp can be hard. All the new friends and things we have experienced can build up inside and cause difficulties making the transition back to our regular life. People have found relief from the pent up energies and experiences in a ritual grounding circle held Monday morning after the final breakfast. An opportunity to set free your joy or sorrow among welcoming and supportive people in a safe space before leaving. Those who have attended this circle have reported it helping significantly in the transition from the world of DO camp to their everyday life. The circle takes as long as it takes. In the past it has lasted anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour. Please bring something to sit on, or be willing to sit on the ground outside.
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Harvest of Joy (with Asrik)
We have released our shame at DO:Fusion and now is the time to harvest our Joys. It has been a hard year for many of us. It is time to count the blessings we have, and generate more so that they may carry us through what comes next. Come and share what is it inside of ourselves that makes us strong, capable beings worthy of love, prosperity, and life. Enjoy the fruits of the harvest on a tantalizing tray and delight in each other’s company as friends, family, and the tribe of Dark Odyssey as we empower each other for the coming winter ahead.
Participants are encouraged to bring harvest fruit, vegetables, baked goods, fruit juice, cider, beer and mead. Drummers welcome.
Kissing: The Eloquent Silence (with Elkor)
Margo Eve
It's taken for granted that everyone knows how to kiss. But many people feel they know how to kiss well. Kissing can be as tender as any murmured words or as demanding as any order. This class will illustrate techniques so that you may develop your own style of kissing. We will cover everything from oral hygiene to how to best go in for “the approach,” to where to place your hands to create just the right moment, and otherwise show how to develop your skills to put you in a class apart when it comes to speaking without words.
The Sensorium (with Elkor)
Margo Eve
Come one, come all to the sensational sensory event of the Summer Camp season! Elkor and Margo Eve will be your host and guide through this night of sensual wonders, where you help create the experience that others will share! Soothe or be soothed as skillful hands relax with tender healing massage. Get comfort and care in cuddle piles. Tickle and tease with toys. Practice your kissing techniques with willing experts. Take the sensual toy challenge, where Elkor will turn the most sadistic implement you can find into one made for tantalizing teasing and pleasure!
- Do you have a relationSHIP or a relationDINGY?
- Get Real, Get Fucked, or get Real Fucked
- Psychological Dominance: From the Inside, Out
The Marine came out in the back room of a San Jose leather bar in 1990 and participated in the original Journeyman Academy. She’s been intimately involved in the Leather Community ever since. The Marine believes in ‘walking the walk’ and has been leading through example ever since. You want to experience some ‘real’ pain show up at one of her classes because she is sure to be heard saying, “let me ask you this?”
A member of Club X in San Diego and Exiles in San Francisco; she has taught numerous classes including all day seminars and 3-day weekend intensives.
The Marine is a Registered Nurse, Certified Hypnotist, Psych K Practitioner, Communication Expert, a life-long student of NLP, with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge.
Do you have a relationSHIP or a relationDINGY?
The Marine
Embark on a journey to discover what's inside your power dynamic; Ship or Dingy? Figure out whats holding you back by examining our own needs and how they relate to our partner's. Ask powerful questions to examine some key areas for internal introspection. Chart your course to arrive at the paradise you deserve.
Get Real, Get Fucked, or get Real Fucked
The Marine
Journey with The Marine to the place of your core; to the place where your true nature shines, the authentic you. BDSM is often a stripping away of the layers society places upon us, in this workshop you will explore modalities to finding your authentic self. Marine prides herself on living a life in the light of her authentic self; come see and feel who you really are.
Psychological Dominance: From the Inside, Out
The Marine
Control the head you have it all. We BDSM practitioners are practiced at controlling the body, ourselves and those around us, the heat, the depth comes when we control the mind sparking primal emotions in the exchange of psychological dominance and submission is what makes us hot, hard and wet without ever laying a hand upon another.
- Fitness Foreplay: Erotic Exercises for Loving Couples
- Martial Arts Pressure Points for Play
- Self-Defense for Sexual Situations That Become Non-Consensual- “This is not your mother's self-defense class”
- Weeding Out the Wackos
MojoDaddy has been a National Level Educator for the BDSM / Kink community since 2006. Most recently, Mojo was awarded the “2011 Educator of the Year” for the Southeast Virginia community. His background includes active duty as an Army paratrooper during the 1980’s, a lifelong martial artist since 1976 and an active member of the Kink community since the mid 1980s. He has been an active advocate of self-defense for women since 1987.
He is the Originator of Elegant Pain Compliance and Control (EPC) used by a select few Pro-Dommes nationwide to include Canada and he is the founder of the Dynamic Dominance Academy (2006).
MojoDaddy is a graduate of Master Taino's Training Academy (MTTA), Master’s Training Class X (2007). He is a charismatic and passionate instructor. Participants leave his workshops infused with a sense of self-empowerment. Currently MojoDaddy is broadening the scope of classes and workshops offered through the Dynamic Dominance Academy. More information can be found at www.dynamicdom.com.
Fitness Foreplay: Erotic Exercises for Loving Couples
MojoDaddy
Bored by ordinary exercises? In this workshop, you'll learn exercises that will motivate you, making you aware of your body and your partner’s body in ways you never thought possible. This workshop is specifically developed to improve your level of fitness by increasing flexibility, strength and muscle tone. Exercising with your lover will bring greater intimacy into your relationship as you enjoy this form of foreplay for better health and better sex! Clothing is optional. These exercises are designed for all couples: gay, lesbians, transgender and het.
Martial Arts Pressure Points for Play
MojoDaddy
Pressure points have been used in various martial arts for hundreds of years. In this workshop participants will learn various ways to safely apply pressure to manipulate play partners and expand upon their bag of tricks for resistance play. This is a hands-on class and attendees should expect to participate in both giving and receiving.
Self-Defense for Sexual Situations That Become Non-Consensual- “This is not your mother's self-defense class”
MojoDaddy
Sometimes scenes go wrong. If you are in the midst of a sexual encounter and realize that you need to NOT be there, it is best to know a few self-defense moves. This workshop is NOT about play, wrestling, or being a brat. It is about getting out of bad encounters and responding when play goes wrong. Drawing from over 30 years of mixed martial training and expertise, MojoDaddy offers “Full-Spectrum” Self-defense training, teaching women & men how to adapt martial arts techniques to their own body types and their individual situations. This active participation class will involve small group and one-on-one drills, and discuss the myths of self-defense, basic training concepts, and where to go from here for further training. It is encouraged to bring a familiar partner, or be willing to be matched randomly with another participant.
Weeding Out the Wackos
MojoDaddy
In the workshop you will learn a modernized, procedurally approach to avoid being a victim of the typically drive-by predator. Although nothing is truly 100%, learning this procedure and using this approach will greatly diminish your odds of becoming a statistic. Learn how relying on the “old or current” approach such as Red Flags can actually endanger you.
- Growing Together through Being Apart
- Befriending Your Green-Eyed Monsters: Working through Envy, Jealousy & Fear (with TTT)
- Shy Freaks: Exploring BDSM for Introverts
- The Splendor of Service: Giving it, Getting it, Loving it
Mollena (Mo) Williams, “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised writer, Leatherwoman, actress, BDSM Educator, fat fetish model and Executive Pervert. In the Kink and Leather communities, she identifies as a power slave who submits to only one. She is extremely honored to have served as International Ms Leather 2010 and Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009. She has been a board associate for the Folsom Street Fair, and was featured on the Folsom poster for 2010. Mollena is also a Coalition Partner and supporter of the NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom). Active in the Leather and BDSM communities since 1996, she keeps it real all over the US, Europe and Canada on myriad BDSM, Leather and kinkcentric topics. She is deeply honored to have been nominated for the 21st Annual Pantheon of Leather’s Woman of the Year AND Northern California Regional Awards! A founding member of Crowded Fire Theater Company, she blogs on The Perverted Negress: http://mollena.com. Mo is also author of many articles, and has been featured in many interviews. She is also responsible for the "The Toybag Gude: Taboo Play" and of the essay "BDSM and Playing with Race" which appears in Best Sex Writing 2010, has two essays appearing in Tristan Taormino's Ultimate Guide to Kinky Sex and is co-author, along with Lee Harrington of the upcoming book Playing Well With Others.
Growing Together through Being Apart
Mollena Williams
Whether by choice or by circumstance, we may find ourselves apart from those we love, or would grow to love. The advent on the Internet has opened our minds and closed distances in the virtual sense, and this can lead us to develop relationships with people who would previously been dismissed as “Geographically Undesirable.” How do you cope with growing or continuing a relationship when you aren’t able to spend time in one another’s physical presence? Join the discussion as we look at ways to manage expectations, develop intimacy and not lose it while you find intimacies with those we love from a distance.
Befriending Your Green-Eyed Monsters: Working through Envy, Jealousy & Fear (with TTT)
Mollena Williams
Polyamorous/Non-monogamous relationships are rewarding but can also be very challenging. In this session Mollena and T bring contrasting perspectives, discussing ways to process and cope with difficult situations, and to celebrate and strengthen the positive aspects of these relationships.
Love doesn't always conquer all and there are times when polyamory feels more like polyagony. Emotions frequently labeled as ""negative"" like envy, jealousy and fear can either spell the end of a relationship, or be helpful indicators that highlight problems that can be successfully resolved when approached with compassion. Join us as we explore ways to avoid pitfalls while fostering clear and open communication, and healthy relationships.
Mollena is mono-flexible, having experienced successful poly and mono relationships. While preferring a monogamous structure, she remains open to other configurations. She is currently in service to a married, polyamorous Dominant Guy.
T is fundamentally polyamorous, currently maintains 3 significant intimate relationships, and has had a fair share of both successful and unsuccessful relationships with varying configurations.
Shy Freaks: Exploring BDSM for Introverts
Mollena Williams
If the thought of BDSM action gets you hot and bothered but the thought of dropping trou in the middle of a dungeonfull of fellow kinksters leaves you cold and queasy, you just might be a shy freak! It is often overlooked than not every kinkster shares exhibitionism as their kink, and those among us who are shy and freaky have a tough row to hoe!
This class explores finding your own boundaries, and will offer some tools for self-assessment. Some shyness is important for self-esteem, and some are hindrances to the same. How do you know if you should push your shyness, or let it sit? What do you do if your partner is a flaming show-off and you like nothing more than a quiet scene at home? And how can you overcome what YOU want to overcome without succumbing to potentially damaging Scene Pressures? All of these questions and more will be explored in a lively and interactive format where even the shyest freaks get their say!
The Splendor of Service: Giving it, Getting it, Loving it
Mollena Williams
Providing service is a term that is often associated with the BDSM community, but what service means to each of us can be a many splendored thing! Why do people find satisfaction in serving others, what does it mean to accept service graciously? How can you realize the positive aspects of service even if you aren’t in a service relationship, and how can you sharpen your focus if you are? And how on earth do you relax and enjoy yourself?
This class will discuss all of the above and more! Additionally, there will be some hands-on discussion, some practical tips, and an actual service opportunity for interested campers. Those who wish to take the energy they gain from the discussion and practically apply it, there’ll be the opportunity to volunteer to serve at the Summer Camp Formal Dinner! So bring your open heart, your smile, and your curiosity about serving and being served.
- Keeping Bondage on the Ground
Always prepared with a smile, a joke, and a length of rope, Murphy Blue has been sharing his kink knowledge and signature style since the turn of the century. Because the interplay of people and energy through intent and gestures is something that should be passed along, Murphy tries to focus not just on the *how’s* of kink, but the frequently forgotten *why’s*.
While most well-known for his unique ropework, creative performances, bouncy demeanor, and intense love for Transformers, “The Blue” is also proficient in multiple kinky skills, a talented photographer, a budding writer, a practicing energy worker of multiple traditions, and a pretty darn good dancer. Murphy travels the country, teaching, learning, and saving the world, one knot at a time.
There is a tale of him being trapped and his only chance to survive was to suspend multiple women to please a dark council. When asked about this, Murphy only smiles.
Keeping Bondage on the Ground
Murphy Blue
In this age of amazing suspensions, sometimes the value and power of keeping your bottom on terra firma is overlooked. This class addresses the many positive advantages of doing floorwork, as well as a few ties that are fun to do on the ground for all levels. Bring rope for learning hands-on, or borrow some from the instructor.
- Genuine Risk: Techniques for Edgier Play
- Uniform Fetish and Military Play
Don (not that Don) is an SM educator, a switch, a Dominant masochist, a mentor and a proper Canadian pervert. Ex-military, he served more than 20 years in the Army, learning how to tear people down and build them back up. Far more educational, however, has been the time spent playing with his leather family (PQLF). He now employs the skills he learned to hunt, catch and torture his willing prey. He has been honoured to teach both small groups and at events such as Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp, Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire, Queer Invasion, Instigate NYC and xplore Berlin.
Genuine Risk: Techniques for Edgier Play
NotThatDon
Choking and gasping for words. Real fear and genuine tears. That sinking feeling that this time, you’ve gone too far. Edge play is like any art form: hard to define, but we know it when we see it. Perhaps you are ready to up your edge-play game, but unsure where to start or how to reduce the risk. In this workshop, Don will demonstrate some specific techniques of riskier play, and describe and show the skills required to execute them. This is not SM 101, and this is not the class for those who believe that SM should be 100% safe. That being said, safety will be specifically highlighted and discussed.
Uniform Fetish and Military Play
NotThatDon
It’s no surprise that kinky people get excited by uniforms and the thought of military play: the smooth leather and metal, the explicit display of authority, the attractive veneer which covers the capacity for violence and brutality...what’s not to like? So what are the steps to turn the fetish into play? What are the details which will transform that surplus-store find into your own personal armor? And how do you wear a uniform that represents an ideology you despise? After 22 years in the Army, and over 11 years in a queer leather family, Don has some ideas.
- Becoming a Sexually Dominant Woman
- FemDom Fête
- A Lazy Tops Guide to Exciting and Creative Scenes
- Spanking: Getting To the Bottom
Princess Kali is a dynamic kink educator that focuses on power exchange, sexual confidence & other pervy fun stuff! Now, with over a decade of experience in exploring sexually alternative lifestyles & professions, her time is focused on running three revolutionary websites she’s founded over the last two years; Kink Academy, Passionate U, and Fearless Press.com
Becoming a Sexually Dominant Woman
Princess Kali
There are a lot of myths around powerful women and they can get in the way when you want to tap into your femme power. Fortunately, Princess Kali can make it much easier to be both strong and feminine. She’ll help you discover your dominant persona and style, offer tips on becoming comfortable in that role, show you a few basic kinky toys, get you started using sexy verbal play, and more. She’ll even give you some ideas for bringing service submission into your play so your partner can pamper you the way you deserve! Let your powerful side out and see how much fun she can be! This workshop focuses on women with male partners.
FemDom Fête
Princess Kali
An elegant evening for Women to be pampered and revel in their dominance. Drinks & horderves will be provided by willing submissives along with foot massages and back rubs. Femme Domme Fete will be a sensually sadistic environment to let your fantasies run free. Female Identified Dominants only please, though submissives, bottoms, slaves, worshipers and fans from the entire gender spectrum are welcome.
A Lazy Tops Guide to Exciting and Creative Scenes
Princess Kali
A creative scene doesn't always require an extensive set up, big muscles, or a lot of time. The Lazy Top philosophy says to use your brain rather than your brawn! Princess Kali will share dozens of concrete examples for both Tops and Bottoms on how to get more inventive in designing your play time. Using inexpensive resources, imaginative mindsets and 'real world' situations that will help keep your play hot and happening often, without putting in any extra work! This class is appropriate for all genders, skill levels and differently abled body types.
Spanking: Getting To the Bottom
Princess Kali
Lots of people like to give or receive spankings, but questions of consent and violence often arise when women are on the receiving end. How do you make sure you’re not crossing that line? What can you do to make your spanking hot and fun? Can you be a strong, confident woman and still get bent over someone’s lap? Princess Kali will help you explore these questions and figure out how to spank someone (or be spanked) without going too far. You’ll learn how to talk about your desires with a partner, what it is about spanking that turns people on, lots of easy and pleasurable techniques, and much more. Come get answers to your questions and find our how to safely explore some of your deepest desires. This class is open to men and women.
- Advanced Cock Confidence
- Queering Power Dynamics: D/s, Age Play and Beyond
- Talk Dirtier: How to Let Your Tongue Go
- Ties Required
- Steamy: How to Write about Sex
Sinclair Sexsmith writes the award-winning personal online project Sugarbutch Chronicles: The Sex, Gender, and Relationship Adventures of a Kinky Queer Butch Top at sugarbutch.net. She has contributed to more than a dozen anthologies, including four Best Lesbian Erotica collections, Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch/Femme Erotica, Persistence: Still Butch and Femme, and Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica. She is the guest editor of Best Lesbian Erotica 2012, and her first full-length erotica anthology, Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, will be published by Cleis Press in April 2012. She teaches workshops on gender and sexuality throughout the US, including at various colleges, The Center for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle, the KinkForAll Unconferences, the Lesbian Sex Mafia, The Center for Sexual Pleasure & Health in Rhode Island, Good Vibrations, and many queer and feminist sex toy stores. More information about her events, workshops, and projects at mrsexsmith.com.
Advanced Cock Confidence
Sinclair Sexsmith
So you know how to strap on—Great! Are you looking to increase sensation for yourself and your partner? How can you enhance your cock mindfulness? Are there contradictions to receiving penetration as a guy, a butch, or a stud? How does strap on play change as our bodies get older? What size is your cock, and what size should it be? Come learn more about constructing an advanced cock-centric sexuality, and preview some of the more unusual cocks on the market made for packing, pissing, and shooting.
Queering Power Dynamics: D/s, Age Play and Beyond
Sinclair Sexsmith
Top, bottom, switch, and everything in between: many of us like to explore what it’s like to give up or take power in our sex play. Some of us even like to play with psychological domination and submission. Let's explore 24/7 role play or domination and submission. What happens when we incorporate identities like “Daddy” from the leather community? What could other age play roles of bigs and littles, Daddies and Mommies, boys and bois and girls and grrrls, have to offer us as we seek deeper and more fulfilling sex explorations? We’ll discuss bringing a power exchange relationship of any sort from the bedroom into a 24/7 lifestyle, what the benefits are for both, and how to go about navigating long term fulfillment for all parties within the relationship.
Talk Dirtier: How to Let Your Tongue Go
Sinclair Sexsmith
Talking dirty in the bedroom can be terrifying at first, but once you unlock your tongue, you’ll find yourself saying all sorts of delicious things! Come to this workshop and we’ll figure out what’s tying our tongues in the first place, what’s holding us back from being more free with our language in the bedroom, and what the heck we should say to enhance our sex and intensity our sensation. The brain is the biggest sex organ, after all, and the more we can turn on our minds, the better our experiences will be.
Ties Required
Sinclair Sexsmith
Want a touch of class at Dark Odyssey? You asked for it, you got it! Bring your three piece suit, your tux and tails… or show up in just a tie! Whatever way you cut it, this event is a ties required event. Dress up to the nines and show your formal best.**
Steamy: How to Write about Sex
Sinclair Sexsmith
To write about sex well you need the boldness to command and describe the dirty and oh so delicious acts we humans explore, and the basic writing skills of plot, setting, and character. In this pen-to-paper writing workshop we’ll look at some examples of extremely successful and unsuccessful erotica, steamy love letters for your sweetheart, how to step up your blog to the next level, where to submit your work for publication in the erotica world, and some quick basics for editing your work. Bring a paper and writing utensil, we will be doing writing exercises.
- Fundamentals of Suspension Bondage
- Hojojutsu and Jujitsu for BDSM
- Speed Dating
- Verbal Orders: The Fire Art of Spoken Directions
Sir C is a sadistic, bisexual, poly, Master and BDSM educator. She shares a home and Her life with Her Alpha Mate, Bobby and is pleased to be part of PQLF leather family. She is well known for Her rope rigging, interesting training perspectives, unique M/s philosophy, and ""evil"" genius. She has pursued Her passion for strenuous bondage and suspension professionally on sites like Hogtied, Waterbondage, Men in Pain, InSexM and InSex. Her personal passion is evident in Her local and national affiliations, participation, and teaching. She was the founding Associate Director of MAsT: Metro New York, and has taught at a number of group meetings and munches, as well as these national events - Black Rose, Dark Odyssey, Fusion, Kinkfest, Ohio Leatherfest, Leather Retreat Master/slave Camp, TES Fest, South Plains Leatherfest, Shibaricon and The Floating World. She is, also, currently seeking a queer live-in slave.
Fundamentals of Suspension Bondage
Sir C
This intermediate level rope class is tailored for the rope user who can tie a square knot and a half-hitch. This class will consist of a lecture followed by a demo and an opportunity for some hand on. Lecture will cover the essential considerations that separate rope suspension from groundwork, with emphasis on safety. I will then demo two basic methods of rope suspension, and discuss when/why they are appropriate, included will be some discussion of the accommodations needed to suspend a variety of body types. Bring someone to tie and 4 bundles of rope 25’-30’feet. Instructor will have some rope to practice with and will encourage the unaccompanied to pair up to practice.
Hojojutsu and Jujitsu for BDSM
Sir C
*details coming soon*
Speed Dating
Sir C
Speed dating is a worldwide phenomenon. We’ve taken the basic idea and customized it Dark Odyssey style. Decide if you are looking to Top or bottom and come out to meet at ten people who compliment that role. If they’re here, they are looking to meet new folks for scenes. Best of all, for the 90 minutes spent at this event everyone flags Top or bottom. With only five minutes per encounter, there’s no need to make small talk, no need to get nervous, just see if there is a match of interests. This is meeting with a purpose with many unknowns eliminated. Everyone will be divided into two groups: “looking to Top” and “looking to bottom.” During these five-minute dates, there is no pressure to discuss a play date because simple communication cards are provided for each encounter and turned in at the end. You will then pick up your individual messages on your way out. These messages range from “I enjoyed talking with you,” to “ let’s talk about a date at lunch tomorrow.”
Verbal Orders: The Fire Art of Spoken Directions
Sir C
Hate to repeat Yourself? Can’t believe You got what You got in response to what You said? Each of Us has experience telling someone to do something and not getting what We wanted as a result. In this class, We will examine what makes a good order… We’ll start by identifying the necessary components of an order, their purpose, and then examine Our management style and how that impacts Our method of giving verbal orders. We’ll even poll the audience to see what those taking the orders have to say about the common pitfalls. Following the theory, We will use our new knowledge in practice exercises. Class is open to Tops and bottoms. Bring someone to work with or get paired up at class.
- Garden of Carnal Delights
- PJ Party
- Poly Sluttery and You (and You and You)
Strap-on Jo is a queer bi switch poly dyke slut whose love affair with other people's anuses went from private kink to professional calling four years ago when she transitioned from being a statistician to being a non-domme professional ass fucker who occasionally teaches classes and makes porn. http://straponjo.com http://facebook.com/StrapOnJoWhole
Garden of Carnal Delights
Strap-on Jo
Imagine an evening where your deepest desires and fantasies are created and fulfilled. Move from room to room and see what awaits you in a buffet of carnal delight. Hang out in The Make-Out Room, where talking, flirting, negotiating, and heavy petting are strongly encouraged. Ready to get really busy with someone (or several someones)? Or maybe you’d like to be in The Brothel to spend or earn some Kundalini Kash. There will be hookers, hustlers, madams, and johns: who will you be? In The Peep Show Room, anyone can strut their stuff, shimmy and shake, or take it all off for an audience of eager voyeurs…There’s only one catch: you can look, but you can’t touch, since all the dancers are behind glass. Of course, any dancer can work the room after a dance set, maybe select a favorite watcher and give that person a sensual lap dance. Then there are always those Peep Show performers who’ll give you a little something extra, if you give them what they want. Want to brush up on your moves or learn a few new tricks before the big night? Check out Arli’s class on Seducing Your Lover, Sinclair’s class on Talking Dirty, or Bear’s class on Theatre Skills for Sex for ideas on how to spice it up before this sexy night of debauchery and delight… or of course any of the great physical sex skills classes!
PJ Party
Strap-on Jo
Break out your pj’s, silk robes, lingerie, bunny slippers, or whatever you wear to bed and join us as we christen Sex-O-Rama for 2011. Check out the fantastic furniture from Liberator, scope out a spot to get busy, or hang back and watch.
Poly Sluttery and You (and You and You)
Strap-on Jo
Multiple loving relationships and casual sex is outside the conventions of both polyamory and swinging. It can be hard to find resources (or time) specifically for a polyamorous and slutty romantic/sex life. How have you made it work? How do you deal with the emotional and physical health needs of yourself and your partners? What land mines have you encountered? What have been your experiences applying ideas learned in workshops, books, and websites on open relationships to your own poly-sluttery? Let's get together and respectfully discuss the work of Tristan Taormino, Reid Mihalko, Dossie Easton and any other authors and educators whose work has informed your poly-sluttery practices.
- Extreme BDSM From Around the World
sublime! has been active in the Mid-Atlantic public scene for 14 years. He has presented at BR2000, BR2002. BRXVII, and LLC2000 and has done scene-related stand-up comedy at TES2001, TES2004, Leather Retreat, and Winter Fire. His foot worship and massage skills are legendary. He enjoys degradation play and wishes that more dommes did. Seven years ago, as large hard drives became affordable, sublime! began collecting clips of extreme BDSM activities, and he never figured out how to stop. The current presentation is culled from 200 gigabytes (300 hours) of titillating material.
Extreme BDSM From Around the World
sublime!
Have you ever wondered how they do what we do in Russia, Brazil, Japan, Thailand, and other exotic locales around the world? Oh, except they do it a lot harder. And they do things we haven't started dreaming about, yet. Come and feast your eyes on several dozen 1-minute clips of extreme F/M BDSM practices around the world. The scenes include bloody whipping, caning, and beatdowns, hard slapping and face kicking, branding and burning, human animals and furniture, cuckold and forced bi play, spit, piss, and mud swallowing, and scat and puke play. You will have ample opportunity to share your own experiences with edge play. And we promise a fair warning before the really gross stuff comes on.
- Cognito Ergo Thud
- Each One Teach One: Mentoring
- Befriending Your Green-Eyed Monsters: Working through Envy, Jealousy & Fear (with Mollena Williams)
- Saburau - The Warrior's Path of Service
T is an artist and teacher who has brought power, passion, and mad percussive skills to a variety of Leather/BDSM/Kink events and programs; most recently Paradise Unbound, Desire, The Exiles (SF), IMsL, Leather Life (NM), & KinkFest. An itinerant member of the Vancouver Away team, T is a genderqueer, sex-positive switch, and a strong proponent of mayhem and playful mischief who can often be found navigating through the pitfalls of polyagony and the joys of polyamory. With a background of rigorous study and disciplined training, T's approach to art, life and Leather reflects a path that has been fundamentally rooted in service, spirit, and thoughtful intention.
Cognito Ergo Thud
TTT
"But I know how to hit! Who doesn't know how to hit!?" - that's what
you're probably thinking. Even if you know how to hit, this hands-on workshop introduces practical ways to hit (and keep hitting!) with increased accuracy, increased power, minimal effort, REDUCED RISK of unwanted injuries. Keep your wrists, elbows, and shoulders safer. Control the depth of impact from sting to thud, and increase the depth of focused connection between top and bottom as you play. Bring your own stunt bottom if you to participate in the hands-on portion of the class.
Each One Teach One: Mentoring
TTT
Many of us are seeking knowledge or skills, or perhaps you have knowledge and skills you would like to share with others. If FetLife is any indication, a lot of people are seeking mentors to gain more knowledge about Kink/BDSM/Leather. This workshop will include ideas and exercises designed to help you create and build positive, productive mentorship relationships. It will also include a brief discussion about how this process might enhance the communities in which we live and play.
Befriending Your Green-Eyed Monsters: Working through Envy, Jealousy & Fear (with Mollena Williams)
TTT
Polyamorous/Non-monogamous relationships are rewarding but can also be very challenging. In this session Mollena and T bring contrasting perspectives, discussing ways to process and cope with difficult situations, and to celebrate and strengthen the positive aspects of these relationships.
Love doesn't always conquer all and there are times when polyamory feels more like polyagony. Emotions frequently labeled as ""negative"" like envy, jealousy and fear can either spell the end of a relationship, or be helpful indicators that highlight problems that can be successfully resolved when approached with compassion. Join us as we explore ways to avoid pitfalls while fostering clear and open communication, and healthy relationships.
Mollena is mono-flexible, having experienced successful poly and mono relationships. While preferring a monogamous structure, she remains open to other configurations. She is currently in service to a married, polyamorous Dominant Guy.
T is fundamentally polyamorous, currently maintains 3 significant intimate relationships, and has had a fair share of both successful and unsuccessful relationships with varying configurations.
Saburau - The Warrior's Path of Service
TTT
This is a philosophically based presentation about the aesthetics of service within Japanese culture and society, and the ways it can be related and integrated (in)to D/s and M/s dynamics. We will discuss the ways in which long-term successful service-based relationships are sustained. We will also discuss the concept of "omotenashi" (what is not seen) an anticipatory, mindful, and thoroughly intentional practice of service that includes elements of how one offers and receives service in a way that is mutually sustaining and pleasurable.
- Cock & Balls: A (re)Introduction
- Kink & Disability
- Ritual for the Breaking of Ties
- Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer
Wintersong Tashlin (www.barkingshaman.com) is a shaman, magician and presenter who has been teaching and running rituals for over a decade. Seeing pain and pleasure as valuable tools, he employs both in his spiritual work as well as his erotic play. In addition to magical and spiritual classes, Wintersong also teaches workshops on various erotic and kink techniques, specializing in needle play, cbt, polyamory, roleplaying and playing with unusual fetishes. He also runs open and private rituals, particularly ones built around personal transformation. Wintersong offers private tutoring in magic/energy work as well as in a variety of erotic techniques and edge play. He has presented for Kink Academy, Dark Odyssey, The Floating World, QueerPlayCon, Black Rose, and many others. Wintersong is a council member of Clan Tashlin, an earth based teaching and magical order built around a unique relationship between people and the energies of the world around us, and has been featured in documentaries on topics such as polyamory, spirituality and genital integrity in both the United States and Great Britain. He can be found on Fetlife simply as “Wintersong.”
Cock & Balls: A (re)Introduction
Wintersong Tashlin
There’s more to know than you think! Join kinkster and cock aficionado extraordinaire Wintersong for a fun and informative exploration of the ins and outs of cocks, balls and more. Learn about the eight zones of penile sensitivity, strategies and techniques for a variety of play, and more anatomy than you can shake a dick at. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn, and your (or someone else’s) genitals will thank you.
Kink & Disability
Wintersong Tashlin
We can’t all be perfect specimens of physical and mental health. In fact, many of us are in some way for lack of a better word, broken. This may pre-date our involvement in kink or even in sexuality at all. Or it could be a recent development. This can take many different forms and can affect our lives, and yes our sex lives in a wide variety of ways. Let’s get together and discuss issues such as: how does one explore safe play with new physical limitations, how do we find satisfying substitutions for favored activities that may now have become off limits, and how do we talk to a play partner about our physical or emotional boundaries without freaking them out.
Ritual for the Breaking of Ties
Wintersong Tashlin
Been through a rough break up? Still feel tied to someone or something in your life but feel like you need to move on? We’ll join together to sever the ties that bind us and hold us back. Although the ritual will have a pagan framework, it will be welcoming to everyone.
Sacred Sex: A Ritual Primer
Wintersong Tashlin
There is a widespread belief that all sex is sacred sex, and there is definitely something to be said for that perspective. However, there are times when something more structured, intentional and perhaps dearer is desired. Rather than giving the participants a particular ritual to duplicated on their own, this workshop will cover the principals of ritual construction with a focus on creating sacred space, opening and closing the ritual, preparation, and of course, why you’d want to do any of this in the first place.

Amy Morgan
Ann and Seamus
arabella champaq
Arli
Artemis Hunter
Asrik
Ava Amnesia
Bear
Capt. Gordon
Dylan Ryan
Gryphon
Ignacio Rivera aka Papi Coxxx
Jim Deuder
Lolita Wolf
Luna Bear
Luna Bella
The Marine
MojoDaddy
Mollena Williams
Murphy Blue
NotThatDon
Princess Kali
Sinclair Sexsmith
Sir C
Strap-on Jo
TTT
Wintersong Tashlin